i don't see how i can help being the cause of much misery to you all your life.

i don't see how i can help being the cause of much misery to you all your life.
不知道其中can help being 我查了好多字典,都找不到,
怎么翻译句子呢
to 回答者：yearnpast :
感觉能通，可是实际翻译的意思是底楼的，
to 底楼兄弟，你怎么理解can help being的，